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Ten ways to get your subjects to relax for you

Ever have problems getting your subjects to relax? Here’s a quick list of ten different groups and ways you can get all of them to loosen up a bit. After years of photographing each of these, I have learned what it takes to get each to relax for me, be themselves and even smile.

The thing you have to realize is that there is no set way to get any subject to smile, but the following ten groups will explain briefly how to get those individual groups to feel less nervous when in your presence. You think you’re nervous in front of your subjects? Trust me, they’re even more nervous than you! So here we go:

1 With friends or family
- Remind them of something fun or funny that both of you would remember. Conjuring up memories that have fond memories work well. For example, “Steve, remember when you threw up on grandma!”

2 With your clients - Talk to them about their work. Also engage them about their families. If you dig enough, and I don’t mean that in a weird or intrusive way, but just talking in general will get your subjects relaxed and you can usually find something to converse about that you both will have in common.

3 With you young children - Pick your nose. Kids love when you’re willing to be silly and funny.

4 With pets - The best way for animals to relax is to exhaust them before you shoot. They behave best that way, so have their owners take them for a long walk before you photograph them. This advice complimentary of Cesar Milan aka The Dog Wisperer

5 With teens
- Being silly, but not too childish will work. Though I am very silly and childish in my humor and teens do tend to appreciate it. I think however do not talk down to them or treat them like they are young kids. You can act silly but don’t treat them younger than they are.

6 Elderly people
- Let them do the talking. They have a lot to share and lots of wisdom. Ask them questions about life in general or about their family and then let them take the wheel and steer.

7 With very shy people
- Sympathize with them. If you’ve never dealt with shyness, then you have no clue, but if you have then you totally understand. Being shy really comes down to insecurity. So don’t do anything to make your subject second guess themselves. Just compliment and get on their level and make yourself very approachable and talk a lot. Talking more than them puts the pressure off of them to do the talking and this will usually relax them and help them open up to you. Also I find it helpful to “pick” on them a little and razz them a bit. I find if you don’t overdo it, it really helps them to loosen up a bit.

8 With babies and infants - It’s not that they are nervous, rather it’s that they’re fussy and need to be relaxed. Have mom cradle and soothe the baby. Take many breaks, as many as needed and give them all the time they need, but work quick. Timing is everything and if you miss the shot, you may not get it back.

9 With uptight people or those overly concerned about their appearance - These people can be a challenge to get to relax but the key here is to go with them where they’re going. In no manner, do you want to belittle them or their concerns. To them, whatever you may think is silly or overly concerned about on their part, is still big in their eyes. And after all, that is all part of being a good photographer, caring about what’s important to your subjects. However, engaging them in conversation can diminish the amount of thought they are putting into themselves.

10 Over protective mothers -
Anyone whose photographed infants and babies before will know what I am referring to. Mothers, especially first time mothers and even fathers with their infant children, can be overly concerned that you’ll hurt their child or that they might get hurt in the process of being photographed. Other concerns may be that they will become cold if their children are being photographed with their clothes off. My suggestion to dealing with parents such as this, is to reassure them that you will keep their children safe and then actually do that. Take all necessary precautions to make sure that your studio is completely safe. Also, if you are photographing a baby nude, I suggest keeping the temperature up a bit by using a portable heater near the area where you will be photographing them.

I hope that this list, while simple and to the point has been helpful and beneficial to you. If so, feel free to leave a comment in our comments section. And join us again here on Pieces of the Picture, where we post at least three times a week with helpful, motivational and practical advice for portrait photographers.

Fifteen things you need for a great senior portrait - #7 - Location - Part 1

This post will discuss in some good detail how important location is to your senior's portrait.

This post will discuss in some good detail how important location is to your senior's portrait.

In an earlier post, in this same series, I mentioned the scenario where you have a portrait of a senior leaning against a tree. Boring. Right? Yeah, it’s boring and it’s been done too many times. In this post, I will mainly discuss location portraiture. The topic is a nice scene. The location you pick for your senior should be interesting, dynamic and beautiful. It should be colorful or drab, both could work for your subject, but more often than not a colorful scene is better. The scene should really enhance your subject and bring them out. The scene should make you look at the picture and be blown away. It should be that great! The interesting thing about what I am saying, is that you don’t have to have the most beautiful location in the world. You can use many locations, as long as you know how to use them and use them to the best of your ability to bring out the best of that location which in turn brings out the best in your subjects.

The first thing I would like to discuss is location scouting. This topic could easily in itself be a blog post itself or even a series. There is so much to know and think about when picking locations and how you go about scouting locations. The truth is you could probably even write a book about the subject matter. But here we will discuss it briefly and bring out some good points.

My first suggestion is to keep a log of great locations. Don’t just drive by a cool location and say, hey that’s neat, I’ll have to remember that. Record it. Write it down. My suggestion, is take a picture of it. Put it on your laptop in a location folder, give good details about it and your own ideas for what it could be used for. Take several shots of the location and if possible at different times of the day. Then record in your folder, what time of day each shot was taken. Heck, even different times of the year might work well for some locations. This will give you a great catalog of places to go to when thinking of places to take your seniors. I would even suggest to go location scouting. Make a point to take trips solely for that purpose. Go down back roads, alleyways, country roads, etc. That way you won’t waste time when photographing your subjects. The other day, we were photographing a wedding and I had a great place in mind. Fortunately, I knew exactly where it was and was able to go straight there and get shots of the bride and groom without having to waste time trying to be clever and come up with a spot. I was prepared. And being prepared, is what you have to be if you are going to be a professional. Think about how much more prepared you’ll be to do a great job with locations and places to photograph if you already have places in mind to photograph.

Another great thing is whenever a client asks you to photograph at a new location that you’ve never photographed before. This happened to me recently when an engaged couple requested we photograph in a bell tower on the KU campus. (GO HAWKS!!!) They booked it for the fall and they said it’s absolutely beautiful that time of the year from that vantage point. They did the leg work for me, but trust me, I’m making note of it! It was gorgeous and the scene was incredible.

Some places are really cool, but you can’t just use these locations because they are on private property. You can’t just go onto their land and use their barn, for example. Actually, a while back, I did that and the owner drove by and asked me what the heck I was doing?! I was quite embarrassed and my client looked at me strangely as they assumed that I had gotten permission to use this beautiful location. Nope. I was kind of dumb, but I did get the shot.

As I learned the hard way, while this is a beautiful location, make sure you get permission first from owners to use their property!

As I learned the hard way, while this is a beautiful location, make sure you get permission first from owners to use their property!

If I ever want to go back there, I will definitely ask permission however. I think if the session is profitable, it wouldn’t even hurt to offer monetary compensation for using the location either. Though, I’ve never had to do that yet. I am sure that it will happen eventually however. So basically, when it comes to scouting location, go out and do it. Record what you find. Record details of the location, not just pictures. Get permission where necessary. Take suggestions from your customers.

One last thing. Make sure you get all types of locations. I have locations that range from rural barns and beautiful hillsides and luscious parks to urban scenes such as back alleys, church architecture and even run down buildings. Rusty warehouses work wonderful as well. You’d be surprised at what you’ll find, if you just look for it.

The second subject I would like to discuss about locations is safety. This may not seem obvious at first or occur to you, but if you find a really interesting location that you feel you just have to shoot at, consider the safety of your customer and yourself. Think ahead and be honest with yourself if a certain location will be safe for you after the sun goes down. Sometimes the coolest locations can be the most unsafe. There is some truth to the idea that certain areas of town are not necessarily the safest. Sometimes, even in the middle of the day, some parts of town may not be safe. The truth is, no matter how cool a location is, there is never an excuse for putting your subjects in danger.

Also consider a location like a open field. Caution should be exercised there as well. I once photographed in a field and the grass was very high and there were weeds everywhere. I didn’t consider it at the time, but there could easily have been a snake in the grass. It was a very wild area and I probably should have considered that before taking my clients out into the middle of it. Reasonable security should be taken when taking your client anywhere.

Also I would not suggest asking them to pose on things or near things where they may get hurt with the subject matter in the scene. I know this really cool old set of metal drums and ladders all on top of each other and it would make a great setting, but it is so rusty that it would probably be unsafe to pose anyone on it. I think that’s the way you get hepatitis C, right?! Okay, I just made that up, but be careful whatever you do and try using some common sense.

The next thing to consider is color. Make sure that your location, as cool as it is, matches your subject’s color. Meaning, make sure that it matches what he or she is wearing. You can color match or you can color complimenting. I’ll give you two examples.

The first was how I used color to color match. I was photographing Kendra for her senior portraits. One of her outfits, she was wearing a green sweater. I had an idea to go into the woods where she could match her surroundings. I used the green canopy of trees as well as the tall wild grass that was beneath her. The grass stood about knee length and vignetted her perfectly. It matched the St. Patrick’s Day standard green sweater that she was wearing. This was perfect color matching and if she had green eyes, I believe this would have been the only thing that could have improved this shot, color wise. So look for opportunities to match the color of your subjects with that of the scene. It’s a great way to improve any shot!

You can see how matching color, can make a dynamic affect on the portrait.

You can see how matching color, can make a dynamic affect on the portrait.

The next example is color complimenting. This means using colors that are opposite yet compliment each other. For example, red and green are complimentary colors. So an example of this would be to put Kendra who is wearing the green sweater and stick her in front of a red brick building. Or perhaps putting her in front of the green scene we just discussed if she were wearing a red sweater and a red hat. This would color compliment. It’s different from the color coordinating but can be just as powerful and interesting, if not more interesting. Below is a list of complimentary colors. Think of all the ways in which you could compliment your subjects wardrobe choice with a background of complimenting colors.

Red compliments Green
Orange compliments Blue
Yellow  compliments Purple
Yellow Green  compliments Red Purple
Blue Green  compliments Orange Red
Blue Purple  compliments Yellow Orange

Below is a helpful chart to help you get the idea.

The interesting thing about color is that it really doesn’t even have to be either of these, matching or complimenting but it can even be other colors as long as they match a theme. For example, if you had red, orange red, yellow, orange and pink shirts in a family, this could be considered to be a matching theme. While the colors themselves don’t match identically, they do match a theme. If you had all these colors and threw in a hunter green shirt into the group, this would not match. It would stand out like a sore thumb. The same can be said with colors in a senior portrait. You don’t have to color match or compliment, but you should strive to keep colors within a color scheme.

I’ll give you an example. A couple years ago on a senior shoot. Allison was wearing a darker blue blouse, blue jeans and she looked nice but casual. So my idea was to take her somewhere where I could match her color scheme. She had brown hair, so I thought, blue clothes, brown hair, so I’ll match her to a brown, rusty, red and black background. The scene was a back alley and not very appealing in itself, but in the senior portrait it was amazing. And color wise, it was perfect!

Subdued colors like blues and browns go great together and this was the perfect location for Allison's blouse.

Subdued colors like blues and browns go great together and this was the perfect location for Allison's blouse!

So you have three options, color matching, color complimenting and color scheme matching. These are your three best options for getting beautiful photos that will really have something beautiful about them. If you try something not in these directions, you will most likely not get as powerful an image as you’d like. You do have an option to convert to black and white, but if you go that route, you still need to consider your tonal values your clothing has. I would still however try my hardest to use color intentionally and strongly for the senior’s portraits.

Believe it or not, as long as this post has been, I am only half way done. I am going to stop here and continue this post next Wednesday as I do not want to overwhelm you in one post. The next post will continue to be part of the series on “Fifteen things you need for a great senior portrait.” So, be back next week for Color, part 2. If you are enjoying this series, please comment in the comments section and let us know! We took a break for a couple weeks to give you a short recess from the series but now we’re back and the plan is to cover the next five aspects before we take another short break and then return to finish it up.

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I’m taking time today to tell all our readers that we really appreciate all the time that you guys take to read our blog and comment when you do. We spend many hours each week preparing blog posts that we think will benefit you. If you’ve read more than just a few posts, you have probably noticed that our articles are tips and advice on photographing portraits of people, that range from birth to the elderly and everything in between.

We are now nearing the end of the year and our work is slowing way down. We have time now to spend writing blog posts and spend time working and improving the blog. The number one reason we are even here, is for you! We want to write articles that you will actually read and want to read and learn from. So what I am asking today is for your suggestions. Write us in the comments section. Tell us what you are interested in and tell us what you want us to write about. Be specific. I’ve got time to invest into this blog for the next few weeks, so we’re ready to get up some great content. Also, every Friday, we’re posting interviews with great photographers. If you have a suggestion for a photographer that you’d like to see interviewed, let us know!!! We’re not afraid or too shy to ask anyone for an interview. Of course, our interviews are with family friendly portrait photographers. So come on, let’s hear your suggestions!

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Finding your passion in photography

When you are passionate about the subjects that you photograph, it will show!

When you find your passion in photography, you become much more excited about photography than you already are!

How do you find your passion in photography? You ask many photographers and they say their passion is photography. However, if you ask those photographers what their passion beyond that is, many do no know or they can’t really put their finger on it. All that they know is that they want to be photographers. However, I would like to argue the fact that while it may be true that you could still have a passion for photography while not knowing what you want to photograph, you will be much more passionate about what you want to photograph once you figure out what it is you want to be passionate about in the area of photography. I used to think that I wanted to photograph everything from weddings to children, families to landscapes, seniors to commercial, greeting cards to labor and delivery, and everything else you could come up with. However, the problem with this is that when you don’t focus your efforts in one area or at least begin to narrow down your real interests, you never really become focused and an expert in your field.

I want to make one quick point however, I do suggest when you begin photographing people, trying all ages and groups and types to figure out what makes you happy and who you enjoy photographing the most. Try photographing kids and families and teenagers and pets… You get the point. Try it all until you begin to see what it is that you enjoy the most.

I worked for a portrait company for many years where my daily task was to photograph families of every age and size. A large portion of my subjects were the elderly. And while I felt that I was very good at photographing elderly people, I never felt passionate about it. However, when children would come into our studio, I felt happy and excited to take their portraits. I loved interacting with babies, children and teenagers. If they were under 18, I had a good time, for the most part. However, while I liked photographing teenagers, I realized that photographing children was my real passion. I love being silly and when dealing with children, you can be as silly as you want and they will appreciate it and laugh at you often. They, for me, are the greatest source of joy for me as a portrait photographer. And while I enjoyed my job as a portrait photographer, I realized that it was not the fact that I was a photographer that I loved so much, it was the interaction between myself and children. Photography is only the outlet that I use to interact between the child and myself.

If you are not passionate about the subjects you photograph, you may actually grow to become uninterested in photography.

If you are not passionate about the subjects you photograph, you may actually grow to become uninterested in photography.

I feel that if you want to find your passion in photography, it won’t come if your passion is cameras. If it is, consider working in a camera store. I feel that your passion will come, in portrait photography specifically, if you love people, genuinely love working with people. The real question is what people? Do you love brides on their wedding day? Do you love weddings and the fanfare? Then weddings may be your outlet. Do you love the attitude and mood of teenagers. Can you relate to them and enjoy being around them? Then senior portraiture may be just your thing. Do you love being around older people? Then perhaps specializing in senior citizens may be just the right type of photography for you. Do you love acting silly and playing with kids? If so, you might want to consider being a children’s photographer. When you figure out what you want you want to photograph, rather than just saying, “I want to be a photographer”, then you will find out what your passion is.

I spent many years just going through the motions, photographing families, older people and couples and the entire time I never realized that my passion was photographing children. I was good at all these groups but had not real passion for photographing them. However, now I spend my days photographing just the subjects that make me the happiest and that is children. I love it. There is no other group I want to photograph. Give me children everyday and I’ll be content. I would never want to go back to the old way of doing things. This is my passion. I wish I would have figured this out much sooner, but it’s okay, because I know it now. So, my suggestion to anyone trying to figure out what they want to do in photography is not attempt to be a generalist. Rather, try to figure out what it is that would make you excited to photograph every day. Is it animals, then photograph pets. Is is it kids? Then be a children’s photographer. You get the idea. Do what makes you happy. Do what makes you excited to get up everyday and photograph. It will make you a much happier and more fulfilled photographer.


When you find your passion in photography, you become much more excited about photography than you already are!

When you are passionate about the subjects that you photograph, it will show!

15 things you need for a great senior portrait – #6 - Simplicity

I spend the majority of my time photographing children rather than seniors, but I think the illustration I will use with children will work better to make my point rather than using seniors, though we are discussing photographing older teens.

Imagine a photograph with a young baby on a while backdrop and sitting on a white rug. Beautiful simple lighting. Beautiful simple clothing. Beautiful simple posing. Beautiful simple everything. Now picture the same beautiful child laying in a huge pile of assorted colorful, mismatched stuffed animals. Which one just from the explanation appeals to you more? Probably the simple one. The reason for this is using too much in a portrait to excite the senses actually has a reverse effect if not done appropriately. Instead of being so colorful that the viewer looks with bright eyes, they instead are confused and not amused. The goal of any image is to extract the correct emotions from the viewer. If the emotion desirous to be extracted is one of excitement and happiness, but all they see is clutter and confusion, regardless of how colorful the image is, they will not feel excited. They will feel frustrated.

The same criteria goes for senior portraits. In order for a senior portrait to really blow away the viewer, it has to be simple. This doesn’t mean that it can’t be complex. It only means it should be simple and not cluttered and unorganized. In a senior portrait, the main focus is the senior, not the things around the senior. For example, using instruments or sports gear is fine, as long as it compliments the senior, not overtakes and rules supreme and makes the senior a secondary figure. The senior without question should be the main focus of the image. If that senior has to compete at all for attention, then something is seriously wrong. Simple, clean, well constructed and composed images are what make great senior portrait photography stand out from the competition. Be loose or careless with composition and details and you will have a substandard image.

The idea is to create an image that is simple and to the point. If things in the image clutter and confuse it and distract from the main subject, the senior in this case, then it is crucial that you rearrange things, recompose or if need be remove it. The idea is to simplify until you have the strongest image possible. Distractions only weaken an image.

One last thing to consider. Have you ever cooked a steak on the grill? If you have a really great steak, all you really need for flavoring is a few spices. Maybe salt, pepper and garlic. A really great steak doesn’t need all 86 spices that are located on your spinning spice rack. I use to think that to make a really great steak, I needed to throw everything on it. But what I found is that the best steaks I have ever had were simple and to the point. Throwing everything else on it didn’t make it better, it actually ruined it. The best steak houses in America don’t throw tons of spices on a steak. They just get a great steak and give it the slight boost it needs. That’s it. The same is to be said of great senior portrait photography. There need not be chaotic complexity. There need only be good simple quality.

Thank you for your continued reading in our series “15 things you need for a great senior portrait“. Join us every Wednesday for a post in this series.


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